I love my children, and my greatest hope is that they find happiness in their lives. I imagine that anyone reading this will have that same hope for their kids. I’ve learned in my quest to improve my own parenting, that a child’s abundant self-love and confidence is essential for their overall well-being and future success. We all want our kids to have these qualities to help them be more resilient, make positive choices, cope with stress and adversity, and have healthy self-esteem.
One way to help our children have self-love is through the use of verbal or written affirmations. Incorporating positive affirmations into a child’s daily routine nurtures their mental and emotional well-being, and it lays a firm foundation for a happier and more fulfilling life. Encourage your kids to regularly declare positive affirmations and to tailor them to their own qualities and strengths.
(Scroll down for 5 Types of Affirmations that will boost your kids’ self-love)
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1. Self-Compassion Affirmations
Self-compassion is a way of treating yourself with the same compassion and empathy that you would extend to a friend who is going through a difficult time. Self-compassion is recognizing and accepting one’s flaws and mistakes without judging them. Embracing self-compassion helps you develop empathy for yourself as you understand that everyone is imperfect and prone to mistakes.
- “I can be kind and patient with myself.”
- “I am worthy of love and acceptance, just as I am.”
- “I value my emotions and treat myself as I would treat my friends.”
- “I am learning and growing, and it’s okay to make mistakes along the way.”
- “I am enough, and I deserve love and respect.”
- “I am unique. I am special. I deserve love and compassion, especially from myself.”
2. Gratitude Affirmations
Practicing gratitude is a powerful way to cultivate kids’ self-love. As children focus on the positive aspects of their lives, they will appreciate who they are and what they have, more and more. By regularly expressing gratitude, kids can learn to see the good in themselves and their lives, which can lead to greater self-confidence, positive self-image, and self-worth. Have them try these declarations of gratitude!
- “I value my talents and achievements.”
- “I’m grateful for loving others, and for being loved.”
- “I appreciate the people who care about me.”
- “I am surrounded by beauty and goodness.”
- “I’m thankful for being me”.
3. Affirmations for Developing Emotional Intelligence in Kids
Emotional intelligence is a key skill for kids. It helps them to not only identify and manage their own rollercoaster of emotions, but also to understand the feelings of those around them. This, in turn, fosters greater confidence and self-awareness. When kids learn to regulate their emotions, their self-esteem gets a healthy boost. Mindfulness is a fantastic tool to add to their emotional intelligence toolbox. It helps them focus on the present moment and connect with their inner selves. Simple mindful breathing exercises provide a calming and grounding activity for them to connect with their bodies and emotions. To build on this self-awareness, encourage your child to write about their thoughts and feelings regularly. Provide them with a journal for that! Journaling will help them gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their emotions, ultimately leading to greater self-love.
- “I am in control of my emotions, and I choose to respond mindfully.”
- “I let empathy guide my actions, as I try to understand others.”
- “I value my emotions as important signals, and I can recognize them before reacting.”
- “I forgive myself for my faults.”
- “I can listen to others respecting their feelings and perspectives.”
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4. Growth Mindset Affirmations
A growth mindset emphasizes the belief that one’s abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work. Encourage your child to speak to themselves with kindness and compassion, even when they make mistakes. Help them embrace challenges and view them as opportunities for growth and development. If you teach your child to have a growth mindset, you will bolster their resilience and confidence in their abilities, which will, in turn, strengthen their self-love.
- “I am confident. I can learn and grow in any endeavor.”
- “I see challenges as chances to learn and grow.”
- “I am getting better every day.”
- “There is no limit to what I can achieve.”
- “Each failure is an opportunity to move forward and achieve success.”
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5. Strength and Personal Worth Affirmations
Our strengths, talents, and qualities make us who we are. Help your kids recognize and celebrate their strengths so that they can feel more capable and successful. This will increases their self-esteem and confidence, but their personal worth goes beyond external achievements. It encompasses their true worth as people. By showing kids that everyone deserves love and respect for who they are, you arm them with strength and confidence to face challenges head-on.
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- “I am a masterpiece in progress, appreciating my journey and the growth it brings.”
- “I recognize my unique strengths, and I confidently embrace them to achieve my goals.”
- I value my unique talents and strengths.”
- “My worth is intrinsic, and I’m contributing to the world in my special way.”
- “I have great ideas.”
Repeat Them Often
Bookmark this page, print it, or buy our journal to help you remember and practice these 5 Types of Affirmations I’ve shared with you. These affirmations equip kids with the resilience they need to face life’s obstacles with hope, self-compassion, and confidence in their abilities. Remind your kid(s) that repeating these affirmations is a great way to value their individuality and to accept themselves for who they are. Whether they repeat the affirmations I’ve listed above or repeat their own custom affirmations, your kid(s) will be well on their way towards developing a solid, personal foundation of self-love and optimism.
